Thursday, January 12, 2012

Where should I start... 

ok, girls should realize that...:

We guys don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him,
without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls or text you, but at 3 in the morning, 
we do get a little concerned.
Nothing is that important at 3 a.m that it can't wait till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty / beautiful / georgeous / cute / stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me. 

Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take the advantage of the mood i'm in.
Let us pay for you! don't 'feel bad'.
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected right?
Smile and say 
'thank you'.

Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know somebody' looking, 
we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for who you are, not what you are.

Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's , or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up. 

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. 
Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines as your bible.
Don't talk about how hot Aaron Aziz, 
Bradd Pitt, or 
Justin Bieber(?)
 is in front of us.

You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word 'handsome' / 'beautiful'?
I'd utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 

"Hey handsome!"

instead of

"Hey baby / anje / ayunx / hubby " 
or whatever else you can think of.

On the other hand, I'm not sayin I wouldn't like it either =)

oh. having conversation like this in my 40's is quite ....hurmm.. adorable don't you think? =)

"duit gaji ta yah usik ye maknye, kte simpan buat belanje honeymo0n kat Hanoi kay...."

"Ngeng! kejadahnye Hanoi?! Tade2, I nak pergi Maldives jugak! "

"U ni, asyik panggil I 'ngeng' cube la panggil 'hubby' ke, 'abg cyunk' ke, 'kakanda arjuna' ke..kan sedap ckit bunyinye.."

"Waklu kakanda arjuna, tampo kang...dah2, honeymoon tahun nie kta buat hotel hunting. Okay bro??"

"Oh tahi...."

Girls, I cannot stress this enough:

If you're not being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change! 

Ditch this sorry ass, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.

Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

Someone who will call for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you.

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot,

 who calls you back when you hang up on him, 

who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat,

 or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… 

wait for the boy who kisses your forehead,

 who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats,

 who holds your hand in front of his friends,

 who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. 

One who is constantly reminding you of 

how much he cares and 

how lucky his is to have you…. 

The one who turns to his friends and says, 

"that’s her..."

Give the nice guys a chance.

Stop saying "Men are all the same!."

Cause we're not,

And you wouldn't like it if we say the same to you right?

So, please..

Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, 
so love the one who treat you right,
and forget the one who don't

And remember, everything happens for a reason.
If you get a chance, take it.
If it changes your life, let it.
Nobody says it would be easy.
They just promise it would be worth it.


Happy New Year 2012 !


just so you know...

patutlaaa.... -.-'




Tuesday, January 10, 2012

You might be married to the worst man on earth, like Asiah who married Pharoah, 
but it didn't change her goodness or her 'aqeedah. 

You might be married to the best man on earth, like Prophet Lut's wife, 
yet that doesn't mean you're going to Jannah with him. 

You might not be married at all, like our beloved Maryam (raa)
 yet Allah swt places your status above all other women on earth.

 Have faith in Allah always & place your full trust in Him.
He's the central focal point of our lives. 

- Heba El-Haddad